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by Erin Franco · 3 Comments

You can’t wait for perfect to pray with your family

It is a desire of mine to pray with my kids, every day and often, individually and as a family. I pray with kids before meals, and when they are scared, and when good things happen, and when bad things happen, and before naptime and bedtime. We take them to mass with us on Sundays and I take them to daily mass by myself when I can.

I have a three-year-old and a one-year-old. They’re as wiggly as all the other three-year-olds and one-year-olds I know. Prayer time at my house (and meals and any other time for that matter!) are not picture-perfect affairs with our heads all bowed and our eyes closed and the children sitting quietly on our laps. We have Gabriel now to where he gets to choose to sit on the couch or on one of our laps, with no toys allowed during prayer, but Faith still runs around a good bit or sits in our lap with a toy.

This Advent, we light our Advent candles at lunch time or dinnertime and sing a verse from “O Come, O Come Emmanuel” together, but it’s usually a messy affair with the highlight being the kids taking turns blowing out the candles afterwards with adorable little sprays of of toddler spit.

I don’t wait until the table is cleared or the living room is clean to do family prayer. I try to pray the Angelus with them before naptime, just plopping down on their beds or on the living room floor right where we are. I’m not waiting until they’re older. Their precious little souls need prayer right now just as much as mine does.

I want my kids to never remember a day where they didn’t thank God for their food and their blessings and their loved ones. I want them to go to God without even thinking, by instinct, when they are happy and when they are sad and when they are scared and when they need anything at all.

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  1. thecatholicwife.net says

    December 24, 2012 at 6:14 pm

    SPOT. ON. This is a total winner of a post!

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  2. Kari says

    December 22, 2012 at 6:46 pm

    So true and so beautiful. I need to work harder at making the time to pray with them, so often I feel overwhelmed by the messiness of the house and all three of them getting into things. We do pray everyday, but not as often as I'd like. Thank you for the reminder and the reminder to pray for patience.

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    • Erin Franco says

      December 23, 2012 at 5:24 pm

      I'm glad you liked this. Just wanted to clarify, if I didn't enough in the post, that my desires and what actually HAPPENS with prayer (frequency and quality:) are two different things! I just have to take it one day at a time. I have been going to Mary a lot to ask for prayers and wisdom with my little ones.

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